Designing The Perfect Child’s Garden

Without saying, kids love to play in the dirt.  When we were young and few possessions, staying outside all day long was the norm.

Children need the opportunities to be architects and builders, learn about responsibilities and dangers, and the child’s garden is the perfect place for them to carry out these essential and imaginative works.

Elements within the child’s garden can be simple or diverse and should contain areas such as simple sandboxes, earth form play areas such as grass swales and fallen timbers for balance beams.  The child’s garden might contain a backyard habitat equipped with a low flow stream for frog ponds and other interesting creatures.  The urge to seek water and its soothing sounds, such as a meandering stream flowing over a series of small falls, is one of our deepest needs.  Some parents might think that children and water in the garden are a recipe for danger and wish to avoid this element.  With safety clearly addressed, fountains, ponds, streams and pools should be part of this children’s paradise.  Water in the garden can be used as a basic lesson of life, learning to distinguish foolish risk and prudent behavior.

The perfectly designed child’s garden should create a refuge and a place for make believe.  Childhood is the time to create caves and fortresses from found materials.  Willow nests and miniature small space forests create with materials such as bamboo or sumac all serve as safe and mysterious havens for children to develop and explore.

Children are marvelous explorers with their unscathed imagination; they can embark daily into their garden and be greeted by whimsical landscape elements such as a contorted filbert or weeping larch and willows.

Planning for an interactive garden to accompany adults with different bodies and mindsets with children’s outdoor needs is essential.  Children are more flexible, more physical where adults tend to be more cerebral.    Keep in mind a perfect child’s garden will welcome and create satisfying outdoor time for adults and children, close in proximity, not necessarily engaged in the same outdoor room.  Create an adult area that is peaceful and serene yet allows sightlines to the child’s garden and activity areas as children need a place for freedom and a place for privacy as well as adults.

Backyard habitats will allow creatures and children to coexist, equipped with natural bird feeders such as grasses, bushes, vines and trees that produce berries, seeds and nuts.  Children will spend hours in these diverse habitats spying on beautiful winged visitors fluttering about their garden paradise and don’t forget that the perfect child’s garden is equipped with a fitting pet palace or two.